Thursday, October 7, 2010

September 27-October 2

September 27: Got Tyler dressed for class picture day, which was a battle, because I tortured Tyler by making him wear pants. Yes, I'm just that cruel. Then Jason got busy playing with his new birthday presents. The guitar from Aunt Dottie was the favorite of the morning.

Jason had his 2-year appointment at the doctor's office. I found it very odd that he got weighed fully clothed the height seemed very off, but I believe they said he was 32in and 27.5lbs. It doesn't even matter if that's what the wrote down or not, because I know neither number is what they claimed it was anyway. Regardless they determined he's "short" and "heavy". Most the the discussion centered around Jason's speech, or lack thereof. This pediatrician (one I had not seen in the practice before) decided that we should re-run his bloodwork to check iron levels, lead levels, and to see if he has the chicken pox immunity so we can avoid the vaccine. So we got a script for bloodwork. She also decided that she wants him seen by a developmental pediatrician as well as a geneticist. If you're curious about the reason for the geneticist, frankly I am too. I asked why and I was given a round-about answer the included the term "fragile X" twice but was assured that he doesn't appear to have any facial features that would indicate any particular diagnosis. They said, due to his delays (and particularly the regression that he experienced) as well as his short stature, they just want to rule out any potential conditions. I also questioned her about the rash on his stomach, which she claimed that she believed it was chiggers. My mom assures me that the rash is absolutely not chiggers, and everyone who has seen the rash agrees. So, my opinion on the pediatrician is a little iffy. Anyway, he got away with only one vaccine and I refused the flu vax cause I'm not sure how I feel about that vaccine to begin with and I really wanted to try to spread any future vaccines anyway.

I spent Jason's naptime trying to make these appointments with the specialists. Turns out developmental pediatricians are in high demand and short supply. At CHOP, where they recommended he be seen, the wait is approximately 15 months (we won't know for a while when he'll be scheduled. I also looked into Cooper Peds as well however they haven't even released the schedule for next year and I was told it's typically a 24-month wait. Fascinating...and frustrating. Still, at the time of this posting (2 weeks later) I have not even managed to secure a geneticist appointment either.

Jason's rash began to spread to his legs, so I was certain it wasn't chiggers. Decided to make the calls to cancel his therapies for the next day since I wasn't feeling well anyway. Still had to suck it up through Ty's karate anyway.

September 28: I was feeling better, and Jason still had no fever or other symptoms with his rash, so I decided to take him to the Garden State Discovery Museum to pass the rainy day while we should have been having therapy. He had fun and I love having time with just Jason to enjoy. Ty had 4 years of having mommy to himself and Jason just doesn't get that luxury nearly as much. Anyway, he particularly enjoyed making some snazzy toilet-paper-tube binoculars.





I had my dentist appointment that afternoon (scheduled brilliantly so my mom could stay home with him while he napped, but early enough so I could still be home to get Ty from school). It was the first appointment in a while where I got complimented on my teeth. Good times. I still hate the dentist though.

September 29: I had to take Jason to get that bloodwork done, which I dreaded. He actually was oddly cooperative, never even whining at all during the entire process. According to the phlebotomist he must be dehydrated (surprise, surprise) because his blood was very thick, which made it difficult to flow. They had to restick him 3 separate times, bend his arms, move the needles, etc all to get the 3 vials of blood filled. It was a loooonnnggg process and he managed to not shed a single tear until he tripped on the doorframe on the way out of the lab (go figure).

Otherwise an uneventful day, straight through til soccer practice and bed.

September 30: We went to the mall in the afternoon. At some dinner and got some great deals at Children's Place.

Afterwards we killed an hour or so at Chuck-e-cheese, using a coupon coupled with a gift card that Tyler was given for his birthday. Not too bad at all, and both boys had fun.

October 1: Apparently we did nothing other than school, naps, and karate. Not likely, but that's all I have record of.

October 2: The morning started off bright and early was the typical soccer game. This photo pretty much represents the amount of action we see Ty display in soccer each week. How many more weeks of this torture???

I kept Jason up from his nap so we could go support the Junior Women's 1st Halloween Costume Swap. I, being a neglectful parents, wasn't paying close enough attention when Jason fell off stage hitting his head. My poor baby. I had never seen him hurt so badly, considering he doesn't normally get hurt when he falls so regularly. Felt pretty guilty about that, but luckily seemed okay after a few minutes and wanted to stay and showed no signs of a concussion. Pretty big bump though.

While Jason napped I took the opportunity to attempt to continue to teach Ty to ride a 2-wheeler. My dad had taken the training wheels off his old bike cause i heard it was easier to teach on a smaller bike, plus it meant that his current bike is still available to ride to school until he learns. It didn't' go well, although I didn't expect it to. The child is beyond dramatic and I'm fairly certain all of Medford Lakes heard the screams and shrieks when he scraped his leg. There is no amount of padding that will protect him.

After the boys were in bed I spent literally the entire evening trying to sew on the patches for Ty's Tiger Scout uniform. Granted I would have saved an hour had I known where the correct supplies were in the house, and then I would have saved another 1/2 hour or so if they would just provide you with a detailed diagram of where the patches go so I wouldn't have to go searching out this information in books and various websites. Anyway, it's done now, but my fingers hurt for days..the one patch was thick!

Jason's 2nd birthday party

The day of Jason's party didn't exactly go as planned. He woke up with a rash all over his belly. Luckily there was no fever and Beth assured me that he'd likely be fine and NOT contagious. Then the weather forecast changed and it was already sprinkling come lunch time. To top it off, we had a party to go to for Tyler, and Jason was going to stay home for a nap but was screaming in his crib instead of napping.Reluctantly we head over to Indian Acres for Micheal's party in the rain. Luckily the rain did clear and a phone call to my mom revealed that Jason was finally napping. The kids had a great time at the party, played on the playground, bouncy house, a hayride, and pumpkin picking. And of course food and yummy cupcakes as well.








After the party I came home and finished loading up the car, woke up Jason, and head to Bob Meyer park with my mom and the boys to start setting up for the party. Meanwhile my dad went and got the pizza. The weather ended up clearing and it was beautiful. He had a great party, complete with lots of playing, a craft (candy necklace making), and waaayyyy too much food. He loved his Disney-themed party, especially the Donald Duck on his cake. He even tried to blow out his candles (eventually Ty did it for him). At the end he had time for opening presents and reacted with shock and amazement at each one. Too cute! Couldn't have asked for a better day for my little boy. I think he loved it!













Jason's birthday!!

Saturday morning was my little man's 2nd birthday. Hard to believe, huh? Tyler, my sweet little boy, decided on his own to go through his bookshelf and pick some ones that he thought his brother would like. He then wrapped them up in construction paper, included a small plastic chick-fil-a cow, and made him a birthday crown like they made him in Kindergarten when he celebrated his summer birthday (a little early). How adorable is that?


Tyler had a soccer game bright and early at 9am. It was a doozy though, as Tyler managed to get hit in the head with the ball while in goal, and then had a total meltdown. He wanted to leave and I told him he had to at least sit on the side and cheer on his team. He absolutely refused and then wouldn't get up to shake hands with the other team at the end of the game...so then the meldown escalated when i wouldn't let him have a snack with his team (as I warned would happen if he didn't at least shake hands). Sometimes that child can really test my patience. He's lucky he can be so sweet some other times or I might have donated him by now.

After Tyler's soccer meltdown we got in the car to spend the day in Atlantic City. The weather was gorgeous! Of course Jason hadn't fallen asleep on the ride like he should have, so when we arrived my dad pushed him in the stroller on the boardwalk and he was alseep shortly. Meanwhile my mom and I took Ty to the pier to go on rides. It was a special fall festival day and they were collecting canned goods for somethign, so with every collection they had a half-price all-day ride pass, so we got one for Tyler. He had a blast getting to ride the rides enlessly, which worked well considering the pier was practically empty, which totally shocked me. Oddly enough, Santa was there as well. Apparently Santa visits the pier in late September before he heads north to the pole to start making presents. Tyler would not go up to him at all though. Eventually Jason woke up and they went on a few rides before we went to eat.









My mom had free meals at Taj Majal so we ate at Sultan's Feast buffet. We had a nice meal, but I wans't too impressed with the atmosphere, although the boys were entertained by the bird that was IN the restaurant. At the end of our meal we put a candle in a cup of pudding and they sang happy birthday to Jason. He even attempted to blow out his candles, which was pretty cute.


After our dinner we hit the boards again to go on a few more rides. Tyler finally agreed to go over to Santa, probably only cause Jason agreed to first, but he wouldn't stand next to him. LOL. They enjoyed quite a few rides again before we walked down the boardwalk to purchase a replacement hermit crab. Ty picked a nice specimen which he has named rainbow due to his color-striped shell.








A perfect second birthday!